This is likely to be a very passionate relationship, pulling up intense feelings within both of you. Problems occur with normal fluctuations of intensity as the relationship progresses, and expectations that the level of intimacy and intensity should remain high consistently which is virtually impossible.
Attempts to maintain intimacy can actually backfire if controlling or manipulative behavior is involved. Games can only push you away from each other in the long run. Extremes of romantic feeling are stimulated so that you can experience feelings of love and hate alternately.
Even if demands are not overt, there is an underlying pressure present that can eventually sap you of personal and creative energy. This is a demanding relationship, and you should be prepared to work hard at it, as it can be a very rewarding, fateful, life-changing, revealing, and intense union. This relationship can never be taken lightly, as it exists to transform your values and change your attitude towards love and relationship.
It demands a lot from you both. This relationship starts off intensely and you are likely to become very close quickly. However, attempts to maintain this high level of intimacy and emotional involvement or dependency can eventually break down the relationship.
Pluto Transits to Natal Venus
One or both of you might resort to tricks and manipulative behavior in an attempt to keep the partner dependent, loyal, and intensely involved. Fear of betrayal or loss can be a self-fulfilling prophecy in this case. It can be hard to let go of one another. If this relationship dissolves, it can easily turn into an angry battle over division of property, possessions, or offspring; or it can leave one or both parties feeling bitter, resentful, and angry for some time.
As hard as it is to let go of the relationship, it can be equally hard to let go of angry feelings after a break-up. This is hardly a casual relationship. Instead, it is destined to change your attitudes towards love and relationship, as well as your values. The need to be loyal to one another and to maintain a high level of intimacy and bonding between you is strong.
Willingness to change, adapt, and make sacrifices for the relationship is notable. Sample from the Romantic Compatibility report : Deep forces from within both of you will complicate your interactions with one another.
You trigger deep feelings in one another, including those you may be accustomed to hiding, such as powerful passions, extreme possessiveness, an urge to dominate sexually or otherwise. Avoid manipulative plays such as guilt, emotional blackmail, jealousy, or threats of abandonment — at all costs! Your connection with one another will have a deeply transforming effect on you both, and even your seemingly casual interactions will somehow influence or change you. That is, if you do not get entangled in some of the subterranean power struggles mentioned above.
Part of the purpose of your relationship is to bring up aspects of yourselves and of your attitudes towards loving others which you have kept in the dark until now. Back to Planets in Aspect in the Composite Chart. Order a relationship chart: Composite chart analyses are found in the Star Mate Couples reportthe Couples and Relationship Forecast reportsand the Romantic Compatibility report.
Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate Astrology.Venus conjunct Pluto natal creates an intense love nature.
How you need to love and be loved manifests, in either a positive or negative way, depends greatly on other aspects and fixed stars in your chart. The variability in the expression of love with this conjunction is due in large part to how you love yourself. Either way, relationships are a serious matter in your life and vital to your well-being.
You should find it easier than most to attract a partner because of your powerful level of attraction, both emotional and sexual. Instant attraction, karmic relationships and falling head over heels can apply to you or your lovers.
It does not take very long for you to fall deeply in love and form a powerful union. If other factors in your chart point to low self-esteem or negative moods, then Venus conjunct Pluto can lead to a lack of self-love and destructive relationships.
You may become a victim of betrayal or abuse, going through much pain each time you are stung. And this can be a repeating cycle spiraling down into despair. Jealousy, possessiveness, manipulation and even crime may result in disgrace and embarrassment. Negative manifestation can also result in self-abuse through drugs or other forms of self-harm. Poverty, sadomasochism or sexual abuse and rape would be extreme examples. It may be that fate sees you visit the darkness for you regenerate like a butterfly from the cocoon.
With positive self-esteem and self-love come the positive manifestations of this conjunction. Self-confidence, popularity, wealth and healthy relationships are the results of a positive transformation, or the blessing of other helpful aspects and fixed stars. You will then enjoy the intensity of love and affection of partners and good friends. Eliminating negative associations and behaviors is important for your development. You will prefer friends and lovers who take relationships seriously like yourself.
Keep in mind that you find very few people love as deeply as you do, but that does not mean that do not love you as much as they possibly can.
Venus conjunct Pluto transit dramatically increases your need for love and affection. You want to experience companionship at a deeper, more intense level. This can lead to problems if you are single, but this transit can also throw a spanner in the works of a healthy relationship if you play your cards the wrong way.
You will be wielding greater power to attract friends and lovers.Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. It rules over two areas of life : love and money. Venus rules our sentiments, what we value and pleasure including grace and charm. Venus rules the arts, love and romance, beauty entertainment and comfort.
We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure. Using your birth date,time and location you can access the detailed reports and features, easy to use menu layout great for beginners as well as advanced students of astrology.
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Venus Aspects Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure Venus Opposition Pluto The challenging aspects of square and opposition invariably display the dark face of the distorted Pluto energy, and require considerable individual transformation and self-understanding to mitigate the potentially negative impact on life that they will otherwise influence a person to experience.
It is important to remember that this influence to confront the darker side of the psyche is inherently positive and creatively beneficial if it is used to orientate your inner life, and that this is he hidden purpose of the Pluto impulses.
It is likely that you will experience a repetitive pattern of sexual love and emotional affairs which either do not seem to satisfy and fulfill you, or collapse into failure, acrimony and suffering. This can lead to a jaded, cynical attitude founded upon a frustrated, demoralized emotionally battered perception of love.
Your emotional intensity and passion are likely to cause difficulties for you, as it often seems to run away out of your control and can take you into situations and encounters which from a clearer perspective you would consider to be undesirable. Certainly, you are looking for something; but your sexual and emotional desires can be too strong, creating distortions of inner energy and leading to compulsive behavior on your part - followed by an attempt at justification in the vein of 'I couldn't help myself Either you will feel driven to experiment in various relationships on a continuous basis, or, as a reaction, you may attempt to avoid entering any emotional affair as you are afraid of experiencing the old established pattern again.
Problems can arise in your intimate relationships due to your tendency to introduce the element of domination. You tend to demand your own way or assume a dominating role, sometimes played out in potentially damaging sexual and emotional contexts, sometimes obvious, sometimes more subtle. Even if you assume a submissive role, it is only as a hidden way to manipulate and achieve your intentions through a subtle route; it is not your natural approach.
Usually, you want your partners to change to suit you, and you can put intense pressure upon them, especially sexually and emotionally. You will need to learn the necessity for mutual compromise in relationships, to understand your inner underlying desires and impulses which are conditioning and controlling you from the depths of your unconscious. It may be appropriate to study humanistic psychology or take part in a course or therapy designed to bring about safe release of hidden impulses into the light of conscious awareness.
Such impulses, and unconscious inner fantasy lives, are present to some degree in everyone; but with this aspect they will stimulate problems for you, which are resolvable if you are willing to confront them in an act of personal reintegration and transformation. This will also serve to balance out your erratic flow of emotional desires, which often seems to confuse you and your partner, as you appear to 'blow very hot and very cold' in your responses to them; this is when your inner impulses arise and fall in some hidden rhythmic cycle, leading to uncontrollable emotional and sexual needs and intensity, or to a lack of response and to coldness.
Always, the choice is yours; potentially you can defuse many of the difficulties that usually face you in relationships, or you can continue hoping that they will lift of their own accord.
Venus Conjunct Pluto: Vicious Women
Pluto is influencing you to take the positive approach, by facing you with the results of being passive to the inner forces and by remaining unconscious of their hidden promptings. Latest Release. Drifting Track Commentary.This has been completely true for all of my life. Can someone tell me some more information regarding this aspect? Specifically, what am i supposed to learn from it?
Thank you.!!! What you described doesn't really sound like Venus-Pluto to me. What you described sounds more like a negative Neptune aspect infatuation with someone you don't know! I've read that with oppositions people tend to associate with ONE planet and pretend the other planet does not exist in their makeup.
This is even more relevant with a personal planet in aspect to a transpersonal "planet" yes I know it's not technically a planet anymore lol. You might associate with Venus and ignore Pluto.
When you do this life-fate-destiny call it what you will brings you Pluto on a platter - often in the shape of a sexual or romantic partner, sometimes in the shape of someone who betrays you, rapes you, harms your Venusian "image" in some way.
I guess what you need to learn from it is to own up to your own Plutonian side - to your own power. It's never a good idea to desire only Venusian things a knight in shinning armor, a beautiful engagement, an even better wedding, diamond rings that all your girlfriends envy, living in a huge house with the perfect car and the perfect husband and the perfect kids etc etc It's best that you willingly open up to the ugly side of life and death and everything that entails.
So if you are someone who has a problem with taboos - they will be thrown your way time and time again. At some point you will probably stop seeing yourself as wife-mother-princess. IP: Logged. That's the Moon. Venus is the woman who seduces and lives solely for her own pleasure. Read up on Venus conjunct Pluto and that will get you on the fast-track to incorporating this energy.
You'll save yourself a lot of trouble. If you don't know their midpoint post their degrees and I'll tell you. AstroWeekly has a lot of good info on natal aspects. I have the Venus Pluto square and it's very enjoyable energy once you get it where you want it.
It affects you so greatly because Venus is your feminine sexuality. A big part of any woman's life.
I need to access the shadow side just as you were saying. As a child, I had to be so perfect with an abusive mother that I got stuck in perfect mode. It is really not perfect mode but crazy, unreal mode LOL How did you come to accept your shadow side?
Ami IP: Logged. Would this help you work your way through the opposition even if it is with another person? I'd only think of using them for oppositions as they are in so much need of balance. With Mercury opposed Venus in synastry. Try your Mercury square someone's Mars Saturn conjunction, now that is something to unravel!
The fact that they're relating at all is a good thing. The more aspects, the more energy the 2 people generate while together.
As long as they have other things in common they'll be fine.Venus represents relationships and aesthetic needs. An aspect between Venus and Pluto especially conjunction, square or opposition brings these two archetypes together.
Pluto empowers what it touches to an extreme degree. Your partner needs to have sufficient depth in order to be able to appreciate and respond to your intense feelings. Pluto Venus aspect suggests a capacity to love and connect on a deep level.
It also suggests a potential for experiencing great deal of hurt because of loving so deeply. This interconnection between great love and pain is probably at the heart of the Venus-Pluto experience, and can fuel profound personal transformation. A poet said this better:.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. In a professional arena, Pluto can manifest as power, influence and even prominence.
The people listed above dealt with power and influence in a very public way. In a private domain, a Pluto Venus aspect offers opportunities to attain empowerment within relationships.
Since Pluto rules all of the scary emotions associated with early emotional trauma, intimate relationships for a Venus-Pluto person or relationships during transit Pluto conjunct, square or opposition Venus always carry a threat and opportunity of revealing your worst memories of fear, shame and helplessness. This is the domain of shadow work, of integrating the emotional energies that have been lost to repression.
The end result is that you become more whole, and have more energy since you stopped spending so much of it on pressing down emotions. Do you have a natal Venus Pluto aspect?
Are you experiencing transit Pluto Venus aspect? How have you experienced the combination of Pluto depth, power and transformation and Venus relationship?
Feel free to share your experiences and insights in the comment section. Hiroki Niizato is a professional consulting astrologer in Florida, serving clients in US and abroad.
He has been practicing astrology professionally since You can contact Hiroki via email at: Hiroki hniizato. Thank you for your compassionate and thoughtful article. It is helping me today. I see how my mind has served to uncover and seek truth but with the current nodal axis forcing my Cancer need for connection into the light…I have realized all of the childhood needs I dealt with by avoiding intimacy are no longer working.
Moon is Saturn is opposite my Venus. Because I am 62I know this old dog needs some new tricks! Thankyou, again — from whoever I am becoming as I integrate these two seemingly opposite energies! This theme dominates my chart.
Also with a Scorpio rising. Right now I am having these all opposite as all those personal planets are transiting on the other side of my chart and Conjunct pluto — plus pluto square pluto transits.That was a nice read. Thank you for it. I have a 12th house venus in pisces trine my 7th house pluto retrograde in scorpio.
Thank you: I think it's a good thing that you have Pluto in trine to your Venus from the 12th. Since planets in the 12th can be hidden or confused. Pluto is used to being hidden and likes to uncover and bring forth. It seems to me your Venus will be a lot more powerful. You will be transformed through your close intimate contacts or relationships but you more than likely draw partners to you that are strong or powerful, but you gotta watch out for the dominating controlling ones.
Which seems to be a Pluto Venus type. Thank you for sharing! I have the trine as well between my Pluto and Venus. This seems to be all true! I kind of feel on the inside as Veronica Lake looks in the photo I wish i would have heeded your advice at the time. I will be back when I find another man, If i ever do:. I'm sorry Janet, It doesn't feel good to be accurate on the bad stuff! Of course you will find a man but the best part is you will find a better man!
Venus Pluto Aspects in Astrology
Perhaps your soul-mate:. Since you already ordered a relationship Analysis, I would be willing to offer you a Love Transit Report for a special price. Let me know if you are interested: Big hugs xxx. I have this placement natally, I fucking love it! Deep inside, I long to be deep, dark, intense and powerful. Venus trine pluto here, great description!
Yikes Thank you for sharing! Thank you!!! Hi Anonymous, Thanks for reading! Yes you really don't need to do much with this placement, it just oozes right out of you! Hi I hv venus leo sextile pluto lib. Hi Anaya, Thank you for your feed back! Yes whether you realize it or not their is a very strong sexual energy attached to all Pluto Venus aspects.
It's subtle and you don't need to try. Most people with this aspect actually try to avoid it and don't understand it. Venus Neptune and confuse the vibes potentially but mostly it would make you more sensitive and compassionate. However, Venus Mars is great for finding a partner that is highly compatible with you. Omg this was amazing to read. This article was indeed shockingly true especially the bit about the money I mean how accurate can you get!!
Moody, quiet and detached other days. I also believe your Midheaven, Mercury and Ascendant sign all affect how you attract people. I also have a Venus sextile Neptune, which makes me extremely dreamy almost unrealistic about romance.
Anyway before I blabber on about more irrelevant factors, let me just end this by saying your article was extremely sensual and well written!Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature.
It rules over two areas of life : love and money. Venus rules our sentiments, what we value and pleasure including grace and charm. Venus rules the arts, love and romance, beauty entertainment and comfort. We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure.
Using your birth date,time and location you can access the detailed reports and features, easy to use menu layout great for beginners as well as advanced students of astrology. AstroMatrix Horoscopes and Birth Charts at your fingertips. Adam Lowenthal. Planet Aspects. Download App. Transforming Lover.BIRTH CHART : Venus with PLUTO
Play Follow. Overview Related Aspects. Venus Aspects Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure Venus Conjunct Pluto Your intimate personal relationships will be extremely important in your life, creating a sphere of experience which can take you to both the heights and the depths of emotional intensity, and will be a focus for energies of transformation which will influence the direction of your life.
Unfortunately, what you are chasing is more of an illusion rather than a reality, a dream figure projected from your own psyche that you look to find in the objective world the anima and animus images of Jungian psychology. As real life has a habit of shattering illusions, you will often be frustrated in your relationships, which could lead you to experiment with a variety of partners, none of whom seems to fit your inner picture of 'perfection'.
Emotionally, you can be difficult to satisfy, as you tend to believe that there is always a greater intensity and experience that has so far eluded you, but which would be within your reach if only you could find the right partner.
Inevitably, your emotional life will be full of highs and lows; and the likelihood is that you will either break up promising relationships or allow them to fall apart by withdrawing your commitment, because you are already casting your net for a more suitable mate.
It can be difficult for someone who is emotionally attached to you, as you tend to 'blow hot and cold', fire, passion and intensity, and ice, distance and disinterest, as your partner displays his or her more frail human face. Only a 'god or a goddess' will do for you! The point is that you are externalizing your inner ideal partner; and what is required is that you realize that you have to evoke these qualities from within your own nature, to become more complete and self-sufficient in yourself, rather than look for another to bear the strain of expressing them, and upon whom you lean.
You have to reabsorb your own fantasy projection, stop expecting another to live up to your ideal, and learn how to embody it yourself. It is a step in moving towards the inner androgynous state of being, where the physical male integrates his anima, allowing 'traditional feminine qualities' of sensitivity, intuitiveness, nurturing and caring to enrich his life, and the physical woman integrates her animus, releasing qualities of action, intellect and assertiveness to enrich her life; an inner balance.
Until you begin to make progress in this inner psychological necessity, then it is likely that you will continue to find an underlying dissatisfaction in your relationships, a feeling that there must be more somewhere. You need to change in order to create an opportunity for your relationships to stand a chance of working; you need to accept the real nature of people, their weaknesses and strengths, and learn to love real flesh and blood people.
Potentially, your capacity for the intensity of love can stimulate considerable transformation in yourself and partners, acting as a healing and development catalyst; the process of rebirth in your life will come via your emotions, but be prepared to suffer the 'death of the heart' first.
Your vitality and energy can give you an artistic temperament and ability, coupled with a style of dramatic self-expression; and people will rarely respond to you in a lukewarm manner, finding themselves either strongly attracted to the consuming flame or repulsed as the intensity is too much for them. Transformation, perhaps through the reorientation of your excess vital emotional energy towards a spiritual or social cause, could help regeneration, offering equal intensity but from a stabilized inner balance.
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